The Cat Doesn’t Always Come Back

prettykitty.jpgI know this is someone’s cat. She is not a feral or a wild cat. Feral cats just don’t tend to wear pink flea collars.

She was at a lady’s house, scratching at the screen. The woman’s instinct was not to check her neighbors to see if their girl had gotten out somehow. Her immediate instinct was to call someone to come get her and take her to the pound because she might rip her screen. If only had she bothered to make a phone call or two. It would not have cost anything to make a few local calls.

Now, this pretty kitty sits at the shelter, hoping her people think of coming to the county pound to look for her.

It is both the mindsets of the owner and of the finders, if only shifted, would save many, cats, from being stuck in this predicament.

Of course, the obvious response is to blame the finder of the cat. Personally, it would cost her little to nothing as far as time and money to simply call her neighbors to find out if any of them were missing a kitty. It could have been a quick reunion.

The other side of this is the owner. I have covered the benefits of your cat being an indoor cat, of course. What disturbs me in this case is the assumption many people have that the “cats always come back.” Panic or even mild concern doesn’t seem to set in, if it does, until the cat is gone for a few days. There is an even an old folk song called “The Cat Came Back.”

Unfortunately, waiting a few days may be way too late, being that in some counties, they are only obligated to hold strays 2-3 days. If your cat shows up at someone else’s house, they are likely to be seen as a nuisance and it is likely animal control will be called. Some facilities hold a cat or dog as long as they have room, some don’t. What that means is that your cat could be long gone by the time you think to mobilize a search for them. Either they have a new home or they are euthanized. Or, it is possible your cat could have been at the wrong place at the wrong time and could have been attacked by a coyote, other cats, or could have been hit by a car.

I am not trying to scare you, but it is unfortunately true.

For cat owners or those considering a cat:
Spay or neuter your cat. It removes the extra motivation to wander.
Consider making your cat an indoor cat.
Put a tag and collar on your cat, so if God forbid they get out, it clues someone in to the fact that someone would want them back.
Microchip your cat. Not everyone checks, but shelters are likely to.

For those that find a cat, before you call animal control:
If they approach you, they are probably someone’s cat rather than feral.
Check for tags.
Call neighbors. Remember those behind you, not just on your block. Give people a reasonable time to respond. Some people are not home during the day.
Pay attention to lost cat ads.

The tone of this message was not to “place blame,” but to make it clear that we are ALL in this together, whether we own a pet or not.   By doing something very small, we can all prevent one more life from being ended, one more from being lost.


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7 Responses to “The Cat Doesn’t Always Come Back”

  1. We always check with the neighbors first. I know how it feels to have your pet escape and not know where he/she is. One of our cats pulled the same disappearing act one extremely cold winter day. The good thing is, we lived in an apartment building and he always wanted to go to the neighbor upstairs so that is where we found him.

    There is a dog in our neighborhood that escapes once a year and comes to our house where we find him in the back yard. This has happened so often that we now know him by name and call him if we see him running. We never would have thought of calling animal control right away when finding him for the first time. We were ready to march up and down the block to find the owner; the good thing is, the owners found us first.

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  2. I don’t know how many times growing up my family would find friendly, lost cats sitting on our front door-steps wanting to be let inside. A couple were cats that belonged to neighbors, but usually they were beat-up long-lost strays. A few stayed with us in our garage or porch while we figured out if the Humane Society had room for them, which, luckily, they always did.

    It just really makes me sad that so many people think its ok to allow a cat to freely roam outdoors. I used to feed the ferals that would hang around in my back yard when I was a kid, and I tamed one once! He was a gorgeous black cat with red/rust coloration on his belly and legs. He used to come up to me to get cheese and pets, after weeks of tempting him to come closer for a treat. Not long after, I saw him dead on the side of the highway. If a person really is concerned for the well-being of their cats, why on earth would they let them roam the streets? It’s seriously risking the life of their cat!

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  3. Our kitties have tags on their collars with my husbands cell number on it. I would hope if someone found them, they would call us. They don’t go out often, but during the summer they like to spend a couple hours outside.

    Thanks for the post.

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  4. This really hit home with me because my cat is missing. He got out during our move eight days ago and we haven’t seen him since. I am heartbroken. We’ve done everything–contacted neighbors, called all of the shelters, posted fliers –and he has a microchip. I hope we get him back –things don’t seem right at all without him.

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  5. Barb, I really hope you find your cat! Do you think if you just moved he tried to “go home?” I knew someone whose cat tried to go back to their old house.

  6. Well, we moved from Texas to New York so if he tried to go home, it’d be one of those “Incredible Journey” type stories! I honestly think someone has him–he’s a beautiful and extremely friendly cat. It’s impossible to get in or out of this neighborhood without seeing my large signs. We’ve called all the closest vets and shelters and he has that microchip. We drove around and put fliers in the mailboxes on all the streets that surround us. I’m trying not to lose hope but it’s getting harder with each passing day. :(

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